Did
Get up damn early
Tromp to the gym through the snow
Suck it up at lifting
Say good morning to a lot of neighbors out shoveling
Cook some stew that was greedily gobbled up at a potluck
Make like a wallflower
Quietly connect with someone
Let cleanup be my icebreaker and enjoy the last half-hour

Didn't
Become someone else
Wallow in workout disappointment
Give up during the awkward uncomfortable bit of the party and go home sad
Rescue Husband from interminable conversation with That One Guy
Do any real-life stuff